Category: Sex

  • The Sun Rising

    The Sun Rising

    Three weeks worth of counselling done. One quarter of my set allocation. Will I need any more after this? I dunno, but if there’s honesty over the usefulness of the process thus far, I’m a good distance forward in progress than was true at the starting point. It is NOTHING to do with what’s being […]

  • Creep


    Day 9: The more things change, the more they stay the same. What I've Learnt in the Last 24 Hours: Lots of heterosexual people find it hard to imagine that there is anything other than heterosexuality in the World. When presented with fictional people who are not heterosexual, their reactions say an enormous amount about them […]

  • ‘Sex Crime’ 1984

    ‘Sex Crime’ 1984

    If it weren't for PLAYBOY magazine I might never have known at an early age just how attracted to men I truly was. #RIPHughHefner — Mr Burlesk (@mrburlesk) September 28, 2017 Many women will celebrate the passing of Hugh Hefner. There is a variance in storytelling from those who have been or were a part of […]

  • Who Are You?

    Who Are You?

    You remember that post from the end of June when I said there was no chance of seeing a female Doctor Who in my lifetime? Meet the Thirteenth Doctor #DoctorWho #Doctor13 — Doctor Who Official (@bbcdoctorwho) July 16, 2017 I don’t think I’ve ever been happier about being wrong in my life. Waking up […]

  • Beautiful


    I had pause yesterday to stop and think why I take more pictures of myself than was the case a decade ago. Is it because I’m happier with my appearance now that I’ve lost weight, or maybe that I realise I can sell myself better with an image than will ever be the case with […]

  • Not a Job

    Not a Job

      My daughter, it transpires, is not a fan of Feminism, and instead thinks we should have Everyone-ism as a concept. Everybody’s equal, regardless of sex, race and ability, and you take care of those who can’t whilst encouraging those who are capable to do more. Women shouldn’t need a day to highlight their existence. […]

  • SexyBack


    I understand how the Internet works. I realise that this place is not all rainbows and love. Many people use anonymity and HQ graphics for stuff that we don’t talk about with kids in the room, that only happens between consenting adults. That farmyard activity. It is the elephant in the room, trunk metaphor upstanding. However, as a […]

  • China Girl

    China Girl

    I went out with my husband and some friends of his a while back, to a concert at our town’s main venue. In conversation, my relationship with Twitter came up, especially in reference to the number of people I follow. My husband then was asked why he wasn’t nearly as prolific, and his answer was wonderfully simple: […]

  • Lemon Crush

    Lemon Crush

    You’ve seen the gags, I don’t need to repeat anything. The inevitability of being born is that you die. When it happens to someone you know and someone you respect in short order, that’s quite painful. My husband is in Pontefract, Yorkshire today for the funeral of one of my favourite great Aunts. I only […]

  • Stupid Girl

    Stupid Girl

    I can quickly sum up yesterday for me in a Tweet: It’s like after 40 years of having the piss taken out of me for being the girl who liked sci-fi, I suddenly became cool. — Chat of the Alt (@AlternativeChat) April 7, 2016 That’s not even close to the whole story, of course, but […]